Dating in London – Flirty vs Dirty?

If you are dating in London and you are involved in emailing someone who is a favourite and they email back, sometimes things can get a bit hot! It’s OK to get involved in a bit of harmless flirting but things can quickly get out of hand and possibly spoil what could be a good relationship. Sex texting is OK with someone you know well, but with a complete stranger it can often go astray. There are some obvious dangers, such as you haven’t a clue who the other person is at this point, but the most embarrassing thing is when you both get carried away before you’ve met and then when you meet find that you don’t fancy each other. Even worse is the situation where they still fancy you but you find them totally unattractive! It’s hard getting out of that one.

The other scenario is at some point when you are dating in London and you phone or text this new contact, you’ve had this great virtual sex, superman/woman performances all round, then you meet up and do fancy each other, you hit the sack still remembering the phone sex and find that neither of you match up to the virtual performance! Wow that is embarrassing! And as before, it’s even worse if one of you really is a superman and the other is a bit of a dud!

So the advice is this, be flirty by all means but keep the dirty out of your phone or text communications until you’ve met your date. This way you’ll really enjoy your dating in London and will be able to look forward to whatever comes without worrying.

Lucy H.