Dating Online : Email Safety, Security and Other Tips

Email systems on dating sites are present for a purpose, they provide safety and security, so you need to use them. Never give your personal email until you are confident in the person you are communicating with. It’s a good idea to keep your surname secret as well so that if internet searches are carried out they will reveal nothing about you. Googling other people? Well you may not do it (as if) but lots of people do. The other to avoid is becoming a friend on Facebook until you are sure. This may also be a good idea if you have some pics on there you’d rather he or she didn’t see just yet!

Email? You need to send out lots, just the same way as you need to add lots of people to your Favourites. This way you’ll get lots back. Don’t be old fashioned on this with the view that the man must make the first move. That view will get you nowhere! It’s an outdated idea. If you don’t make first contact someone else will and it could have been the person of your dreams. So get emailing!

Just cause he/she hasn’t contacted you yet means nothing, he or she may just be about to do so, so give them a push and send them an invite. He/she will appreciate it and make them feel wanted and attractive. There’s nothing worse than ploughing through lots of profiles and never getting en email form anyone.